Step 1 - Unmanageability is like signing up to go skydiving with your loved one, jumping from the airplane, and then realizing your should have brought a parachute.
Step 2 - Believing is like seeing that the person next to you brought an extra parachute.
Step 3 - Deciding is like accepting the loan of a spare parachute from a stranger without first checking to see if it is a brand that you like.