I recently resigned from a service position because there was too much conflict. I detached rather than forfeit my serenity. Even so, I am still involved. I just work behind the scenes and stay away from the specific people I have conflict with today.
I need to be in service. Service is a type of participation. When I think I do not need a meeting - then I better go to a meeting. When I think I have outgrown service - then I better get humble and go find another service position.